48 Hours of Christmas

2020, a year we could have never imagined would turn out this way.  2020, a year of loss and a year of hope.  2020, a year of pause & a year of working harder and longer hours that I've ever worked in my life.  Curbside pick up at a gift shop - who would of ever thought it would come to this.   Having four letter words hurled at me for asking someone to leave the shop when they were not allowed to be inside, who would have imagined.  Asking time and time again for folks to pull their masks back up over their noses, never crossed our minds in 2019.  Life is different now.  Some of our favorite businesses are gone, and more will likely close.  Some of our favorite family members and friends are gone and we didn't get to say a proper goodbye or hold their hand, or wipe away a tear.   Putting my face in front of the tablet and being the goofball I am on a daily basis. camera rolling, to save my business, who would have ever thought.   Things are different now, some good & some bad.  I've had a blast reconnecting with the shop and my customers.  I'm loving getting to know everyone and sharing my life.  The woodchucks have not yet won the war of the garden, another good thing & I may not get to stop & smell the flowers, but I do get to see them, and that is good.  We take the good with the bad.  It is what it is and it will be what it will be.   The only constant in life is that things are always changing, and change can be good.  God has a plan in all of this and I am just along for the ride!  Guide me Lord & keep me heading the right direction.  Thanks to all of you who've come along for the ride, 2020 has been an interesting and unique experience so far, and it's only part way through!  Rambling thoughts for a crazy rambling year!  We pause we pivot, we pause, we pivot, we pause & we give thanks!  Blessings & joy to you all!  - Patti

Christmas is coming way to fast this year. Yikes - it is already December 8th, now just when did that happen.  12 batches of cookies made already for the shop, 2  Christmas pageant rehearsals done at church, Candlelight night in the village of Kinderhook has come and gone and I still haven't put up my outside Christmas lights at home.  The 18 inches of snow in my yard could have something to do with that, but on a positive note all that snow is keeping the trees outside the shop from tipping over in our flower beds.  Mr. & Mrs. Claus are perching happily on the bench out in front of the store to welcome holiday hurried & harried shoppers, and perhaps give them a moment to pause and smile.  Now don't get me wrong, I am not complaining at all.  I love how busy we are this time of year.  I love all the happy faces when we can help them find just the right gift for the hard to shop for Aunt Betty & Uncle Peter.  This year is just zooming by.  With one less week between Thanksgiving and Christmas this year  the time to do the extras we're accustomed to just are not there!  But that's ok, because before we know it it will be Christmas once again.  I have a friend who says 'Christmas - 4th of July - Christmas'  It goes just that fast.   No matter what fills your days, it really doesn't matter if you bake all the right cookies, buy all the right presents, or get every decoration out or not.  The memories we make along the way are simply the best.  Wishing you a very Merry Christmas.   Jesus is the reason for the season, that is what we remember most!  Blessings to you all! - Patti

October 1st of 2017 is the start of our 24th year here at the Cross Eyed Owl.  Just where does the time go?  Taking a look at all the awesome Cross Eyed Owl crew we realize that 3 of them were not even born back in 1993 when the Cross Eyed Owl began. Just where does the time go?   Sara will be getting married next spring.  Just where does the time go?  Customers who used to come in with their mom's and grandma's to collect beanie babies all those years ago are married with children of their own now.  Just where does the time go?   One day at a time, 24 hours per day, every moment counts.  We know our mom's were right to tell us that the older we get the faster the time flies by.  It was New Year's Day, then the 4th of July and now it's almost time for Halloween and Christmas will be here in the blink of an eye.   Just where does the time go?  Remember the good from the past, enjoy today and dream for tomorrow because time flies by at the speed of light.  Every moment you have is a chance to be a light in someonelse's day.  Choose joy.  Choose peace.  Choose hope.  Choose to make a difference and choose to do it now.  Why?  Because one day you will sit back an wonder......... Just where did all that time go?

This is the first Christmas in 16 years without my Miss Robin kitty.  I haven't had the heart to change her page on the website yet.  It's been 9 months since she passed away and I still miss her like crazy.   I think perhaps Miss Gracie was trying to distract me by toppling the Christmas tree this year.  She has taken Robin's place of following my around the house and telling me when it is time for bed.  Miss Lulu keeps my attention too with her silly antics on a daily basis.  We will make new memories this Christmas as we have done everyday since Robin passed.  New routines, one day at a time & one memory at a time, and hopefully not one more broken ornament at a time.  Christmas will be merry again, and Robin will always live on in my heart with all her siblings that passed before her.  Meowy Christmas from the purr-balls!   

  23 years and counting, that's how long I've been a business owner.  As a young child I never dreamed of owning my own business.  Sure as a child growing up in Kinderhook I visited the treasure shop on a regular basis to peruse the penny candy jars, especially for the Swedish fish & red licorice.  Which by the way I still like to snack on, none of that icky black licorice for me!  But I do't remember ever thinking, ' When I grow up I want to have a shop just like this!'   I was never really sure what I wanted to be when I grew up.  To be married - yup, I wanted that.  Children, yup I wanted them too.  A house of my own & kitties in the yard - yup & yup!  But my own business, no, that was not on the list.  SO here we are all these years later & when we look back over the 'wish list', yes I am married & yes we have kitties but as for the rest of the list it is a big fat NOPE!  We were never blessed with children, although i have oodles of church sons & daughters as the youth leader and all my work  daughters too.  After all I have helped put many of those work daughters through college in a round about way.  And no home to call my own either, although I've had the privilege to live in some pretty cool places along the way all these years.
   While to some it may seem that I've missed out on some of life's best gifts, instead I tend to look at what I do have instead of what many may say is missing.  I am surrounded daily by the best friends and family a girl could ask for.  I get to cheerfully head off to work each day knowing we will be helping bring smiles to many faces that day.  I love the people I work with and the people I work for!  My customers are truly the BEST!  I am allowed the time to serve my community, my church & my Lord on a daily basis and for that I and truly grateful.  
  In life you don't always end up where you expect.  In life you don't always get the fairy-tale ending.  But in life you do end up where you are meant to be, sometimes it just looks very different than what you had planned.  But you know what?  Plans can change too, and that's a good thing!


 

Last summer days? 

I have finally decided to take the plunge and restart my blog & add it to my site.   The line above is truly a little white lie.  I did actually attempt blogging 4 years ago, and since that lasted for 2 whole posts, it is clear that I don't really have any idea what I am doing.  I have been called opinionated however, so I suppose it is time to put that gift to good use!  Stay tuned & we'll see where this all goes! Blessings -  P